CALLED TO SERVE THE PEOPLE OF SINGAPORE & MALAYSIA

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

First week in the mission field

Elder Forsyth's 1st email home gave us a pretty clear idea that he's not in Utah anymore... (edited January 5, 2011)

His first transfer will be spent in West Malaysia, and not in Singapore as we originally thought.

"So the first day in Singapore, there were ships EVERYWHERE!" People everywhere! First thing, the Mission President took us to eat curry, rice & chicken WITH OUR HANDS! It was really messy. The people in Singapore and in my area, Sitiawan (Malaysia) are very diverse. I've only seen 1 other white person that isn't a missionary. There are lots of Muslims, Hindus, Indians, and Chinese. We wear normal missionary attire. We knock doors, do street contacts, teach... a lot of our information on the Singapore mission was wrong.

Its really hot and rainy here, but we just bike through it. My companion says I'm so GREEN right now. I'm expecting everyone I talk to, to want to hear about the gospel and get baptized, but that's okay. I talk to everyone. It was hard the first couple of days because I wasn't used to being denied and turned away. But its okay. My resolve is a lot stronger. Its hard here because most people speak Malay, little English, tribal speak, Indonesian, or some other language, so we have to hunt out the Mandarin speakers. My companion, Elder Whinham has only been out on his mission for 5 months, and he was shocked to be called as the trainer, and he said that they pretty much didn't have anyone else. We're the only two Mandarin speaking missionaries in all of West Malaysia! Most of the other missionaries speak Malay. My companion keeps saying my Mandarin is better than his and I can speak more than him, which might be true because, come to think of it, I've helped him more on his Chinese than he's helped me with mine. He goes for it 100% and I really respect him for it.

The city we're in (Sitiawan) is very interesting/different. It has a few main roads, with houses and shops all down the sides. The buildings are 4-5 stories tall, but very run down and old. They crush the trash in the streets and let the juice run into the middle, so it has a very, uh, "Malaysian" smell. We bike everywhere. The first day my butt was really sore and my arms got really sunburned. The food is really good. Think of Chinese food. I've already had chicken feet! Here, you take ANY food and add a chili-paste to it. We call it Malaysian ketchup.

My companion and I have a 3 story home to ourselves. We have electricity and running water with filters hooked up to it. We're the only missionaries in Sitiawan. We eat out almost every meal ($3 Malay/$1 American). In Malaysia, toilet paper is a luxury, so I've gone almost a week without toilet paper. I didn't catch on at first, but when we were eating with our hands the first day in Singapore, they were teaching us how to do it properly. They told us, "you eat with your right hand only. The left hand is for other things." I could only handle that so long, so I took a hose, attached it to a spigot, and made my own bidet... Grandpa Forsyth-style!

As for the work, we're working with Cynthia, a mom with 3 boys and a girl. Baptism date is set for the 16th of January. We're also working with a family by the name of Huang. There are 8 in their family, and their son, Eugene is already a convert. The kids and the dad look good, but the mom is having a hard time softening her heart. The people here are very humble. Cynthia lives in a shack with no electricity. The Huangs do have electricity and a tv. I really understand now how blessed we truly are. We are lucky to have so much.

My companion taught me a parable that says, "I'm not afraid of the heavens, I'm not afraid of the earth, but I'm afraid of white people who speak Chinese!" HAHA - so funny and so true. Chinese people start freaking out when I start speaking in Mandarin to them. Most people try not to lose face, so they just ignore us and pretend they don't speak any language at all."

Memories from the MTC

Elder Forsyth has left the building...
The MTC BUILDING, that is! He flew from the Salt Lake City airport to Singapore, with layovers in San Francisco and Hong Kong. He called from San Francisco and we all got to talk to him. It was so great to hear his voice, and even better because as the clock rolled past midnight to Dec 28th... it was Mom's birthday. What a great birthday present. Elder Forsyth told us he'd call again from Hong Kong... but we forgot about the "Asian factor". The "Asian factor" states that any time an Asian is around, Elder Forsyth is going to lose all sense of anything else going on.

In his first, quick email home, after arriving in Singapore, he apologized for not calling. He wrote, "I was about my Father's business." He explained later that he kept going up to people speaking to them in Mandarin, not realizing that not every Asian SPEAKS Mandarin. We just love his enthusiasm!

Elders Aikens, Jensen & Forsyth
in SINGAPORE!!!!!

Elder Forsyth just could not get enough of the Asian Elders at the MTC! Suffice it to say... they were stalked. This is Elder Wong (upper left), one of the Mandarin Language teachers (left) and Elder Ho (below).

JOY, JOY, JOY!
Everytime Cody sees pictures of Brandon, he remarks... "He looks SOOO happy! I've never seen Brandon look SOOOO happy!"

Its so wonderful to see the joy and the changes that have come into our son's life as he has given himself over to the Lord for His molding and teaching. Can you just feel the love when you look at him? I know the people of Singapore & Malaysia are going to feel it and see it.



Elder Forsyth ran into a friend from our days in West Valley City.
Elder Dallin Sweet is going to the Los Angeles, CA Mission - Korean speaking.


I think how its cute how Brandon sent home a picture to show me that
he still doesn't make his bed. How thoughtful!

Elder Forsyth LOVED his Mandarin language teachers.

Mug shot!

If you look closely, you can see Elder Forsyth's "mark of shame" that he received from wrestling with his Zone Leader... which is against MTC rules.

He says his head never touched ANYTHING, but that he received this "mark of the beast" so that everyone would know he had broken the rules. :D

My Missionary Man!

Christmas at the MTC!
I'm so glad they made it nice for the missionaries.
I just can't decide whether to order this one in poster or postage stamp size!?!?!

The Mandarin speaking missionaries of the MTC


Elders Jensen, Aikens, Green & Brandon (District Comps)


Elder Aikens in their language class

Elder Forsyth's District, going to the Provo temple